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Understanding Body Language On A First Date » RedHotPie

People communicate through nonverbal cues more often than through verbal cues. It’s just that we don’t know that we are doing so.

This is the reason why experts agree that one of the keys to maintaining good communication with other people is to learn how to understand the nonverbal cues that they emit. For instance, when dating, there are body language cues that say whether a person is interested or not.

Here are some dating body language that you should learn to read the next time you went out on a date.

Going to your direction
Just as a person who is interested will directly go to a person, their dating body language will also point in the direction of the person they are interested in. People will lean towards you or point in your direction, whether it be with the foot, the leg or the whole body. People who are really into you will also exhibit a body language that is relaxed exhibiting trust and at the same time with tension.

Looking at the face
When dating for the first time, people whose interests were aroused will exhibit a common set of body language. Their eyebrows will rise, their eyes will dilate and their lips will part after smiling. One of the classic dating body language is the hair toss, where she will touch her hair and then look at you. With women, they will usually smile a lot and even giggle a couple of times at things that you say. Another dating body language that you should watch out for is the willingness to expose her wrists, palms and the inside of their arms.

Looking straight in the eye
Though not all people have the courage to exhibit this particular dating body language, it is nevertheless effective. People who look at you straight in the eye during conversations are found to be more attractive and more approachable. They are also considered to be more honest. People who make the effort to look at you in the eye are genuinely interested in you and in what you are saying. Otherwise they wouldn’t waste much time. One should remember though that this is not true for all kinds of people. Some people actually become shyer when talking to a person they really like. Their dating body language become more closeted and nervous. They would refuse to look directly at the eye and may bow down their heads all the time. Know the difference.

Sitting with arms crossed
This dating body language spells “don’t come closer” in big bold silent letters. A very protective stance, crossing the arms shows a need for people to back away because there is a problem with trust. This is one body language that tells you that you just made the worst impression on someone. Some people who are not into relationships unconsciously adopt this dating body language to show that they are not interested.

Batting their eyelash
This dating body language and flirting style may seem a bit archaic to you, having been there during the time of Scarlett O’ Hara but it sure is effective with the men. Only the women, however, can get away with this particular brand of dating body language. Men who try to bat their eyelash would probably appear as if they have a tic in their eyes and might need a psychiatrist.

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The Essential Guide To Email Dating » Adult Matchmaker

With the popularity of the Internet, almost everything that man used to do outside his home, became accessible from his home: shopping, grocery and even dating. Email dating is one of the ways of virtually getting to know potential mates. The entire industry is called online dating, and email dating is carving it’s own niche in the industry.

There are three types of email dating. The main difference lie on the origin of the email, and each type has its own pros and cons.

ISP email

You can email-date using the email address supplied by your Internet service provider. However, there are some risks associated with using it. First, some addresses provided by an ISP show hints of information about you or where you stay. Secondly, date messages can get mixed up with other personal or business emails. Lastly, since date emails are exploratory, it runs the risk of bringing in viruses to your PC.

If you still prefer the convenience of downloading your messages and having the opportunity to view them offline, check with your ISP if they can give you multiple addresses. If so, take advantage of this opportunity and use a separate email address for the purpose of email dating, so you can avoid the risks as mentioned.

Online Dating Service

You can email date through an online dating service. Most online dating service includes email dating as part of the package when you sign up. Depending on how the online dating system works, email addresses can be provided to you as part of the matching service, or you may search email addresses from the dating service database that matches your profile.

Most dating websites will provide you with your own email address that is hosted at their server. Having such eliminates the risks associated with downloading email. You also have the capability of accessing it anywhere that there is an Internet connection. This is very convenient for the jetsetter seeker. However, you can create and send emails to prospective dates only when you are online.

Email Dating Service

A new online service is becoming available to cyber love seekers called email-dating service. This dating site caters exclusively to email dating, and does not offer the “traditional” online dating services. They offer a fewer but select database of seekers and boast of matching services that are within commutable distance. Such arrangements give a higher probability that email dates going well, can be taken further.

There are certainly many reasons why one will prefer email dating and are as follows:

-You can meet other people in the safety and convenience of home. You don’t need hours of preparation or create arrangements for a house-sitter. If you are a single Dad, you need not get a babysitter to go on a date.

-You don’t need to spend on your looks, dinner or a present.

-You can spend more time with getting to know the other party and letting her know you than going through traffic or falling in-line at the theatre.

-And if things don’t work out quite the way you hoped for, then it’s easy to end it with just a polite email telling her that you don’t see yourself going further; no waiting for the perfect moment, no careful words, no tears.

Now that you see the advantages of email dating, why don’t you try it! Here are a few tips on how to go about it, and successfully find a meaningful date.

-Use the subject line like a headline; be creative, positive and genuine.

-Begin your e-mail with something interesting, like a something funny you saw or a discovery you made recently. Share it with the girl and use that as an introduction of yourself. First emails should always be customized in a conversational style.

-Avoid pick-up lines. In reality, they usually don’t work and this rarely makes a good first impression. It’s OK to flirt or tease a little, but keep things smooth and polite.

-Share genuine details about yourself; keep it short, simple and interesting. Mention something about the recipient’s profile where you perceive a connection.

-Ask open-ended questions that will require more than yes or no. This way, when she replies, she is obliged to share more than the tip of the iceberg.

-Proofread before hitting the send button.

That’s just about everything you need to know about email dating. Now you’re ready, because, “You Got Mail!”


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