Video Transcript… Sex On The First Date

Bessie Bardo
Hi! I’m Bessie Bardo
Jeff Barker
And I’m Jeff Barker
Bessie Bardo
And were RedHotPie’s dating doctors, and today were here to give you some smart and spicy dating advice. First we’ll start with the spicy…
Jeff Barker
Whats on today?
Bessie Bardo
You know everybody has an opinion about it! Everybody’s scared to know what to do. Sex on the first date!!!
Jeff Barker
Yes please!
Bessie Bardo
You say please… and guys seem to think they want it, then often you will think different of us the next day.
Jeff Barker
Well its true guys… you know who you are. Don’t think differently of them the next day.
Bessie Bardo
Respect us in the morning, please.
Jeff Barker
In deed, but seriously… the answer to sex on the first date is simple. Its completly up to the individual, and you have to respect that. You cant be pressured into it because someone’s nagging into your ear, or your friends are doing it, or somebody said you should. It really is up to you, and if it feels like something you want to do.
Bessie Bardo
So lets go thru some pro’s and con’s and try to get some sense into this situation. Pro’s… I mean the first one, like hello! its going to be fun.
Jeff Barker
Yeh, if you do have sex on the first date, its probably going to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
You’ll go with the moment, you will feel like your in a movie scene, it can be exiting.
Jeff Barker
Can be awkward
Bessie Bardo
Can be awkward
Jeff Barker
But mostly its fun, its supposed to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
And in some ways its good to get it over and done with, because you can work out, especially if you have been single for a long time, the tension from not having sex for such a long time.
Jeff Barker
Yeh
Bessie Bardo
And you can work out if your actually into the person, or if it was just a sexual attraction.
Jeff Barker
Or this can be that carrot on a stick scenario, where if you hold off from having sex on the first date, the person that your with will sort of chase you, and because you have a lot of chemicals running thru your body, you wont actually know if its true love or just a lustful fling. So sex on the first date can actually clear away all of that and leave you with the reality of wether you want to pursure the relationship or not.
Bessie Bardo
Sounds like a lot of fun so far, but there are some con’s of course as I said. Somebody could think differently the next day. Maybe not respect you in the morning.
Jeff Barker
Yes… the old "dont respect you in the morning". If the guy rolls over out of the bed and says "I’ve got to go to the Dentist sweetheart, I’ll see you later" you know you dont want him in your life anyway. Just think back, ok, we had fun at the time, dont collect baggage and bring it into another relationship because you think that might be the person that treats you right. Just accept it for what it was, and be glad that you have moved him along. If you hadn’t had sex on the first date, you would have found this out like 20 days in, and it would have been a lot more painful.
Bessie Bardo
Wasted a lot of time and energy. Ok, well tips, if you do do it, most importantly dont feel guilty about it. Life’s too short to be guilty. Just give him or her a call the next day, and have a laugh.
Jeff Barker
Just have a laugh about it. People can get all worked and think… Oh my goodness, I cant believe what I have done. Pick up the phone and laugh, just say that was a lot of fun. That dispells it all, and allows you to move on with the relationship.
Bessie Bardo
And be prepared, maybe it was just in the moment. Enjoy what you did. Dont necessarilly think of it as meaning anything in the future. And of course be safe and enjoy your dating.
Jeff Barker
In deed.
Bessie Bardo
Well thats it from us. If you would like to find out any more information, of course you can look at our books online, or you can go to RedHotPie
Australia. Well dont forget… Life is too short, so get it right the first time with out smart and spicy dating advice… bye.
Jeff Barker
See you next time.

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Here are 3 little tips that work big time and will help you approach women successfully:

1. Don’t assume that she is going to reject you. In fact, you should train yourself to expect the OPPOSITE. If you expect that she is going to reject you, then you are NOT going to step up to her with your best game by any means. You are probably going to end up looking like a guy that is somewhat awkward, and of course that is not going to look good on you.

2. Approach her with more than just a pickup line. If you are going to get up the nerve to make your approach on a woman, don’t shoot yourself in the leg by using some outdated pickup line. If you want to use an opener, try something more creative and more relevant to the situation.

3. When you approach a woman, hold your head up high. What I really mean, is let your body language say that you are an alpha male that deserves her attention and that she would be a fool not to give you a chance. Body language can say it all, more than a few clever words can ever handle, and you want to approach her and look like you are the alpha male.

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Video Transcript :

Jeff :
Whats your opinion of online dating?

Female #1 :
For some people its probably a good way of just getting… like there energy back. like getting back into the dating game.

Male #1 :
Well people usually when they sign up they put a profile down so you can go and watch what there interested in. Your not fighting thru the stuff you dont want to know.

Male #2 :
You can pretty much suss somebody out, like if your a bit of a conversationalist, it makes it really easy to do that.

Female # 1 :
And you know its all layed out on the table, so you sort of know what your getting into, and people put a bit of thought into what there going to put in there beacaus ethey want to give the impression of what they really want.

Female #2 :
And at the same time you can ask something you would never ask them on a date without feeling awkward or nasty.

Female #3 :
Yeh, I think it saves time doesn’t it, and you can communicate a bit before giving photographs of each other, just incase you dont fancy the particular person… you just disappear, I suppose!!!

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Bessie :
Hi! I’m Bessie Bardo

Jeff :
And I’m Jeff Barker

Bessie :
Were RedHotPie’s Personals Uncut Au dating doctors.

Jeff :
Yes we are!

Bessie :
Now right here were here to talk to you about some smart and spicy dating advice. One of the most important topics when it comes to RedHotPie personals Uncut Au of course is online dating. Its all changed!

Your friends would hook you up once with Haryy the high pants… dramatic results would follow. But now online dating sites (like RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au) make it much easier.

Jeff :
Online dating is by far the most efficient way to date. Gone are the days when it was like looking for a needle in a haystack, except that the haystack cost $20 to get in to, and was full of cockroaches, and you got to get a cab between each haystack.

With online dating Sites like RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au you can sit back, put your slippers on, sip a Martini and have fun.

Bessie :
And its all about… no games. people are hopefully very honest about who they are and what they want. I know why you (Jeff) like online dating… because when someone rejects you, its not so painful as it is, face to face.

Jeff :
Yes ladies its true! If someone comes along you dont like, rather than having to jump out of the bathroom window of the club. You just press delete… and you never have to see them again.

Bessie :
Its that simple!!! When it comes to online dating, (like at RedHotPIe Personals Uncut Au) your member profile is everything. Its just like dressing up for a night on the town, you want to impress. You need to impress with your RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile too.

Jeff :
And the first thing to know is that no matter what your into Wether your into flirting, or a happy ever after. Or just someone to sit down to watch videos’ with, or your naughty and you just want to have the time of your life… there’s a person for you at RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au.

All sorts, and all shapes and sizes. And its all written on there RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile. You dont have to be a Shakespear, but do write a members profile that reflects who you are.

Thers no point in lying. No point in saying that your 6′ 4″ and athletic, if your 4′ 3″ and dumpy… OK! Its just not fair on the person your talking to, and you wouldn’t like it being done to you.

Be HONEST!… Now the really great thing is that you can actually get verified these days if your a member of RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au… getting your membership verified confirms that you are who you say you are.

Bessie :
And you know your chatting to a girl, and not a guy.

Jeff :
Which is important!

Bessie :
Pictures!!! Most important thing of all. How hard is it to take a good photo.

Jeff :
Come on!.. I’ve seen some horrific pictures. Dont get them taken by your cat or your baby brother. Dont take them in the dark. Dont use a mobile phone. Dont use your webcam. Get a simple digital camera. Go out and have some fun, go to a party…

Bessie :
Take a picture doing things you love to do, good light and good background.

Jeff :
And if you need to lighten them up, you can get some cheap Programs that will lighten them up. And dont post them sideways, what is with that!

Bessie :
Keep them simple. And please! dont get glamour shots done. There’s no point in getting something thats not really you at all. Because when you turn up, they wont recognise you.

Jeff :
You want people to love you for you.

Bessie :
Very true. Ok, so lets talk about some Do’s and Dont’s most importantly. Dont give out your personal information, and do meet in a public place.

Jeff :
You dont need to give out your personal information at all. The great thing about RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au specifically is that you can go to there Functions, because as a member you get to go to there regular Functions all around the Australia.So you can rock up, and say to the person you would like to meet, and say “hey” lets meet at the next Function. Its nece and casual, and your in a safe envirement, totally OK.

Bessie :
Exactly… so be honest about who you are and what you want. If your married, tell us please!!! And most importantly, relax and have some fun. Online dating at RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au is a lot more effective way to meet like minded people.

Jeff :
Dont spam people. Dont send out thousands and thousands of emails to people that you dont have any interest in, and you have not even read there RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile.

Read ther members profile. Dont be pushy. People dont always want to meet up straight away. They might want to get to know first, say, using a webcam. So have a bit of a flirt, a bit of fun. Take your time and get to know people.

Bessie :
Well, thats all from us. If you would like any more information… check out our Books online, or go to RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au if there is any more questions you would like to ask.

Just remember, life is just to short… so get it right the first time with our hot and spicy dating advice.

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Make a clear assessment of the experiences you would not like to go through. For instance, you would hate to be lied to while your partner had a clandestine fling. When you set clear boundaries, you are coming clean about what you are as a person and are likely to attract people who think like you and share similar qualities.

Set clear boundaries

You would hate to be manipulated into doing something that you do not want to be a part of. What are the few things you would not do under any given circumstance? Keep these boundaries in mind when you visit a free dating site. If you find that there are some people who seem to be trying to set up parallel relationships and are succeeding in doing so at various stages, steer clear. You do not want to be one more of the many people being considered for forming a partnership. If you find someone suitable, lay a time limit in which both of you can decide whether you would like to go ahead or not. A free dating site like RedHotPie Uncut in Australia is home to different people some of who may not be comfortable with your approach. Home in on the ones who respond to your open style. Do not criticize or praise your past relationships and do not be open to people who complain about present or past partners.

Experience openness

Be open to the things that are said as long as they are not in your “will not accept” zone. Your openness on a free dating site will come up with responses and you will have to take care not to be rigid. If a potentially good partner who thinks like you does not share your hobbies, you may need to keep your mind open to adjusting to this aspect of the person. Do you think you can have a conversation with a person who shares interests that are different from yours? Avoid making the mistake of finding a clone of yourself or a family icon when you search for a partner on a free dating site.

Discuss the past when ready

People are looking for your present mental frame, willingness to be in a relationship and your suitability for one. If you find someone and there is a mutual positive feeling, at some point, the discussions will veer to the past. If you are not comfortable discussing what happened in the past, tell the person you have met on the free dating site… RedHotPie Uncut in Australia for example. Typically, a recent bereavement or a turbulent relationship is difficult to speak about objectively. However, you must let the person know that you are not closing your mind to the discussion and leaving the person out. Be prepared to make an objective statement without details at the start and the person should know to exercise restraint in pressing for further answers. This discussion will tell you what kind of person you are dealing with in terms of jealousy and maturity in handling sensitive topics.

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This is done by hitting the rewind button. By this I mean, think back to the beginning part of the relationship. I’d bet anything that, the early part was the most fun part, so hit the rewind button and see if you can get back to the fun part.

Warning: The Rewind Button Is Not Instant

Unfortunately the rewind button doesn’t work as fast as it does on your DVD Player. But, you shouldn’t mind putting in your time, if you want to save your relationship. After all, that’s the least you can do.

Think about what was it that drew you to this person initially? Was it their smile? Was it their sense of humor? Did their likes and beliefs match your likes and beliefs? It was probably a mixture of all those things.

What Exactly Happened?

Now that you remember why you were attracted to them in the first place, and hopefully you’ve got that warm feeling again, go to the present time, and investigate what exactly happened? How did you get from point A to Point B?

Was it just one thing or has it just built up throughout the relationship? Sometimes we don’t notice what we have until its gone. So if the early memories you have of the relationship seem honest, wonderful, and real, while the feelings you have of the relationship at the current stage, seem a bit shallow or petty, its time to head back to the beginning.

Notice The Good In Your Ex

I know this may seem hard right now, but make a conscious decision to look for every great thing that you saw in your ex, back in the beginning stages, NOW. So if the first thing that drew you to them was a smile, notice their smile. It’s one of the reasons you were together. Appreciate that!

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As I mentioned, fear of rejection, or imagining rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away.

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

Ironically, I’ve found that the best way to overcome my own fear of rejection was to see that it wasn’t going to actually happen.

The more times I approached women and started conversations and the more I saw that women usually responded positively, the less I imagined things going wrong.

This led to a positive feedback loop of me wanting to approach more women and have more success.

Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own fear of rejection:

1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching women.

Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and just watch.

Make sure you visit a place that is really busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.

Now, pay attention.

You’ll begin to pick out the guys who are approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.

You’ll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn’t interested, nothing bad happens.

You’ll also see that when a guy tries to grab a woman who’s walking by, makes a crude sexual comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn’t interested, that the woman’s feelings might escalate and she’ll respond negatively.

You can watch what works and what doesn’t right in front of your own eyes.

This will start to reprogram your mind that women don’t usually “reject” men, even in the most intense situations where they’re being approached all night.

2) Start small.

If you have to, start by talking to women who are paid to talk to you. Go to a mall (one of my favorites).

Stores in malls hire attractive young women. Walk into every store, and start conversations. Practice making eye contact.

Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne (the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and give you her opinion.

The more you do this, the more you’ll get used to starting conversations with women you don’t know, and having comfortable conversations.

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3) Choose one default thing for each situation.

It amazes me that guys don’t think ahead. They don’t plan what they’re going to do. As the old saying goes “By failing to plan, you plan to fail”.

You really need to figure out a default thing you can do to start a conversation with any woman, anywhere, anytime.

Once you come up with your idea, mentally rehearse it until you could do it in any situation. Then get out and do it.

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You can do it, you really can IF you try hard enough. I mean, won’t you be proud to mount the plaque for the Dating Loser of the Year on YOUR bathroom wall? Let’s take a look at the 10 things you need to do to win.

1.Use a counterfeit photo: That’s right on your profile paste a photo of your son, cousin, brother, best friend whoever is one handsome dude and when your date shows up you tell her you had plastic surgery after a car wreck.

2.Lie on your profile: An extension of number 1, lie about your education, interests, height, religion, and whatever else is on there to present the perfect, and fake, persona.

3.Be a slob: When you meet her, make sure you haven’t showered in days, and wear dirty, wrinkled old clothes.

4.Arrive late: Come swaggering in with attitude, find her, and move on to # 5.

5.Borrow money: Tell her you stopped at the ATM but don’t have any money in your account, so you need to borrow money for a mocha cappuccino.

6.Set up your laptop: As soon as you sit down, set up your laptop, and proceed to send emails and instant message people the whole time you are with her.

7.Talk about yourself non-stop: That’s right talk, talk, talk about your job, the latest NASCAR race, drinking beer with your buddies, whatever. And, make SURE you don’t ask her a single thing about herself.

8.Be negative: While you are talking non-stop make sure it is about everything negative how you hate your boss, what a loser your last girlfriend was, and how crummy the weather ALWAYS is!

9.Act like a jerk: Be rude to everyone and anyone. Kick the blind man’s dog, yell at a kid, argue with the server or counterperson. That’s right show your true colors!

10.Get down and dirty: In between instant messages, start talking like you were having phone sex only now it’s Starbuck’s sex!

So, my friend, if you want to win the Dating Loser of the Year Award, be sure to follow these guidelines and I’ll be sending you that plaque pronto.

Go get ‘em!

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Let’s assume for a minute that you have met a great girl and that you want more than a one night-stand. You want to have a good time with her because you want to develop a long-term relationship.

I believe that there isn’t a perfect general place for all first dates, just the perfect place for you and your future date. One where you have been with your ex date and it was great, could be a wrong choice for your date with another girl.

Make sure your first date will be a success choosing the right place. There are some rules and criteria that will help you to make the best decision:

1. For your very first meeting it is suggested that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive and relaxing.

2. Chose the place for the first date according your date’s age and lifestyle. Maybe you don’t know too much about the women you are going to ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her,looking to how she is dressing and watching the type of people she is hanging around.

3. Particularly on a first date, you may wish to leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for both guys and girls is always useful.

4. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Sporting events, concerts and picnics are great places for first dates. You can talk, and being outside, everything feels less claustrophobic. It’s easy and relaxed and clothing usually isn’t a problem

5. It makes a difference if you can find something that she will remember for a long time. If in your area is an event like circus, carnival, festival, don’t miss it and you two will have more fun than at a coffee place that’s for sure. There wouldn’t be any pressure; you’ll only have to enjoy the company.

6. If you are dating late in the evening make sure that you walk in places where your date is feeling safe. Don’t forget that she does not know you very well and being alone with you in a place that is not public can make her feel insecure. It is normal!

By being unique and creative, you’ll stand out among the other guys she’s dated and she will want to be with you again.

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You don’t have to look like Mel Gibson or Pamela Anderson to get members of the opposite sex to go weak at the knees. All you need is great smile and follow the few simple tips we have put together for you below and they will be attracted to you like paparazzi to a movie star.

1) EYE CONTACT
Create eye contact with the person you want to flirt with for around 5 seconds. Just smile a little and look away slowly. Try this at least 3 times in the first 15 - 20 mins. Your target needs to know your interested and eye contact is the universal signal for openness. Be carefull not to stare so hard that you will burn a whole right through them, just keep it casual. And remember they are just as nervous as you.

2) SMILING
Smiling is definitely your greatest flirting weapon. Experts agree smiling is the easiest and most effective way of making yourself look more attractive and approachable. Nothing to over the top just keep it realistic. If you have been successful in locking eyes and you have been receiving smiles. Its time to take the plunge, he/she is very interested in getting to know you better so what are you waiting for?

3) SECOND GLANCE
Women if you have been eyeing someone off at a party, or anywhere really, but you have not been noticed yet try the second glance technique. It’s so simple and I guarantee if they are even slightly interested you will very soon have their entire concentration focused on you. Its simple, it works the same, as eye contact but has to be done from a much closer distance. I usually do a walk by making sure i am about to walk into her line of sight. And when I force her to fall into my line of site I look away and then turn back to look again very subtle, in a way that nobody would have even seen except her and instantly drop the smile and eye contact.

4) SELF PRUNING
Watch your targets body language when he/she is looking at you are they beautifying themselves? Its a subconscious thing we tend to groom ourselves a lot more frequently when we are attracted to someone. If your target is not showing these signs there is no reason why you cant do them.

5) ITS IN THE LIPS
Another great subconscious trick is to lick your lips. No not like a porn star the best way to describe it is like you do when you have chaffed lips but a lil slower. Licking your lips is the minds way of recognizing that you are preparing for a kiss.

6) CROSSING YOUR LEGS
Women cross your legs. Its another sure fire flirting technique and sends guys crazy and wanting to see more.

7) SHAPE UP
Guys, stand tall and straight don’t slouch remember you’re trying to be the most prominent man in the room so feel like it and she will start to see it. Be calm and pull your shoulders back show that you are confident.

LET YOUR FEET DO THE TALKING
Body language experts state that women should stand with their feet no more then 6 inches apart and with toes pointing inwards. While men should position their feet 6 - 10 inches apart with their toes pointing outwards to promote the sign of dominance.

9) MIME
The highest form of any type of flattery has always been to imitate someone. Try not to go to overboard and make a fool of yourself. Just pick up on the way your target talks holds themselves slight similarities will make your target feel more comfortable.

10) PAY ATTENTION
Focus on what your target is saying, Rarely can you find someone more attractive then someone that finds you genuinely interesting, SO BE THAT PERSON. The one that finds them really interesting. Keep things simple and light listen to what they are saying and through in a few jokes here and there just to keep the smiles working. Don’t be afraid to touch them in a non-sexual manner. Often it can be received as very soothing especially coming from a man. As a man you should never underestimate the power of our hands when used in a sensual and caring manner.
Follow the signals above and keep them in mind throughout your first contact. Avoid the typical stereotype advances of trying to show off. Its as see through as glass and will only make you look like your really not genuine about getting to know them at all.

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